Proaction – The First P of the P10 Pinciple – Part 2

In Part 1 of this discussion of Proaction –  we discussed mostly the why of making changes in your life. Now, let’s dig a little bit more into how to bring about proactive change. Let’s first discuss the four quadrants of change and discover in which quadrant you must exercise your proaction in order to seize control or and own your own life instead of it owning you.

Four Quadrants of Change

Scientists studying many things love looking at conditions in dual axes to categorize and understand things better. Change can be viewed along the dual axes of internal vs. external change and individual vs. group change. Using these two axes results in four quadrants of change: individual-internal, group-internal, individual-external, group-external. There are various components of each of these four quadrants of change.

Each person’s individual-internal quadrant contains their psychological, emotional, cognitive, conscious, and spiritual elements that control their true existential behaviors. Each person’s individual-external quadrant expresses their individual-internal elements as their skill sets, behaviors, performances, and impacts on others. Each group-internal quadrant contains the group’s organizational culture, memories, and unwritten rules that guide the group’s members’ inter-relationships. Finally, each group-external quadrant expresses their internal elements as the group’s organizational structure, polices, procedures, work instructions, which affect the group’s hopefully profitable results.

Each of these quadrants touches upon and affects the others. All change begins in the internal quadrants and becomes visible in the external quadrants. While some change can occur in all four quadrants of this model, none of them will survive over the long term unless they begin in the individual-internal quadrant. The individuals in the individual-internal quadrant comprise those who drive group-internal changes. The individual-internal quadrant, however, is where proaction resides.

Returning to the idea of overcoming your status quo by using proaction, you cannot do anything proactive without getting off the dime and …

Get to it, now!

People often ask, how to a get started using the P10 Principle? The answer is simple. Just get to it, now! How can you get off the dime and get to it now? By moving forward, right now, to the next P of the P10 Principle. Decide what you do not like about your life and make the rock hard commitment to change it.

To recap, if you do not like the way your life is going, you have to effect a change in what you are doing in order to change the way your life is going. That change must start with you making changes in your individual-internal quadrant result with you taking action in your external quadrant. The key word in this last sentence, however, and the key idea of proaction is “Start.”

Start. Start thinking about what you want to change. Then quit just thinking about it and start doing something about it to move you forward from where you are now. Get to it already. Start, now. Get to it, now.

Are you ready to “Get to it, now!”? Good. Then let’s move on to the next P in the P10 Principle and learn about perception.

[reminder]What is the one thing you would like to change in your life?[/reminder]

In the meantime, you GOTTABGATT! so go out there today and be Great! All the time!

Proaction – The First P of the P10 Principle – Part 1

Every body continues in its state of rest, or of uniform motion in a straight line, unless it is compelled to change that state by forces impressed upon it.

Newton’s First Law of Motion,

translated from the his Philosophiæ Naturalis Principia Mathematica, Latin for “Mathematical Principles of Natural Philosophy“, often called the Principia (sometimes Principia Mathematica), a work in three books, first published July 5, 1687

Who and what are the biggest obstacles to you becoming the Great! All the time! by becoming the full and complete owner of your own life? Think about and try to answer this question. But don’t answer it saying it is the people standing in your way or the circumstances causing you problems. It’s not your spouse or your boss or your kids or your teachers. It’s not your lack of disposable income or that you are fat and ugly (if you happen to be that) or that you are less educated than you would like to be (if you happen to be that). It’s not any of those things or anything like any of those things.

No. The single and biggest obstacle to you becoming Great! All the time! and seizing full and complete ownership of your life is Continue reading “Proaction – The First P of the P10 Principle – Part 1”

What’s the Purpose of Your Business?

Peter F. Drucker (1909 – 2005) has often been called “the founder of modern management.” If you do not have a copy of his seminal textbook, Management, on your shelf (mine is the revised edition (HarperCollins 2008), then you need to do the two things I have done: buy and memorize it cover to cover. My adulation for the man nothwithstanding, however, he is wrong about his core value on the purpose of a business, dead wrong.

I’ll tell you why. Continue reading “What’s the Purpose of Your Business?”

3 Major Things You Can Do To Stop Killing Yourself Ever So Slowly

Our friends at FamilyDoctor.org tell us, the Top 10 Causes of Death (in order) include:

  1. Heart Disease
  2. Cancer
  3. Chronic lower respiratory disease, primarily Chronic Obstructive Pulmonary Disease, or COPD
  4. Stroke
  5. Accidents (many are alcohol-related)
  6. Alzheimer’s disease
  7. Diabetes
  8. Kidney disease
  9. Flu and pneumonia
  10. Intentional self-harm (suicide)

The top four of these diseases kill over 2 million Americans each year. We are all dying, some of us faster than others; and chances are one of these top ten diseases is eventually going to get us sooner or later. Our goal here at Great! All the Time! is to help you use your Greatness! to make death wait as long as possible. There are plenty of things you can do to stop yourself from dying from any of these Top 10 causes of death any sooner than you should. Continue reading “3 Major Things You Can Do To Stop Killing Yourself Ever So Slowly”

Treat Your Business as Your Life’s Precious Resources Manufacturing Plant

I had a quick counseling session this morning with one of my favorite clients, a doctor who is just not a morning person and does not look forward to going to his office each morning. Except for the vacant stare of dissatisfaction with his life, my client looks nothing like this guy. Nonetheless, …

By the end of the day, he is happy, but only, so he said, because he was able to finish the day and get paid, handsomely, for diagnosing and treating people’s illnesses and use that money in the late afternoons, evenings, weekends, and vacations, doing what he really would prefer to be spending his time and money doing.

“Really?” I asked. “So you feel more energized at the end of your shift than the beginning of it?”

Continue reading “Treat Your Business as Your Life’s Precious Resources Manufacturing Plant”

Be Thankful for the Bad As Well As the Good

Have you ever had a bad experience that eventually led to a good one?

My wife’s Hebrew name Shoshana means “rose.” When we took each other for life, we took each other for better and for worse, for richer and for poorer, in sickness and in health, to death shall we part – both petals and thorns. And we’ve been thankful for finding each other almost every day of our combined life, even on the bad days.

Why?  Continue reading “Be Thankful for the Bad As Well As the Good”

4 Ideas to Help You “Get To It, Now!”

Being Great! All the time! is no easy task. If it was, then everyone would be it. We all have two sides of our selves. Our good side, which  positively drives us past our status quo and our bad side, which negatively either drives us backwards or at the very least allows us to wallow in our status quo.

If you want to be Great! All the time!, then you have to encourage your good side and discourage your bad side from the moment you wake up in the morning until you go to bed each night. And even while you are asleep if at all possible. To help you accentuate the positive and eliminate the negative and Get To It, Now! each morning, here are four ideas, courtesy of an old Rabbi, Yehuda Ben Teima, as written in Ethics of the Fathers. Continue reading “4 Ideas to Help You “Get To It, Now!””

4 Choices to Help You Rightsize Your Body

Many times in my life, I have let myself get out of control and put on more weight than I should carry.

When this happened, I’d usually blame my present circumstances instead of telling myself the truth, which is no thing and no one is more to blame for the size of my body than simply me. Each of us has the POWER, FOCUS, CONTROL, and MIND to drive our lifestyles and thrive all we want.
If you want to rightsize your body, then these four choices can help you build disease-resistant habits and better bodies, now and forever.

  1. Eat God’s good earth’s entire rainbow of whole fruits and vegetables. Choosing these will help us eat less CRAPF (the P is silent) — commercially refined and processed food.
  2. Drink smart. Choosing water over almost any other beverage helps flush our bodies of toxins with none of the damaging effects of sugary drinks. Juicing is the next best liquid alternative if you must have a flavored liquid, but not as good as eating whole foods.
  3. MIND what you eat. Choosing to manage what you eat, intend to eat only what you plan, note your plan and actual intake in a journal, and decide to improve almost every meal are essential to eating more for nutrifying your body than any salving emotional wounds.
  4. Move more. Working standing up at home and on the job and replacing all the seating in your video entertainment areas with cardio machines will lessen your likelihood of becoming a chair or couch potato.

Question: What’s the last thing you did to rightsize your body?

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7 Steps to Make Your Family Your Avocation

If you want to have a Great! family life, then you have to put more of your life’s precious resources into being the Great! leader of your family. Being Great! at work is one thing. Thriving as the leader of your family requires even more work at home. Work is your main vocation. Being Great! at home has to become your avocation. Continue reading “7 Steps to Make Your Family Your Avocation”

Your Habits Really Affect Your Health

Yes, your habits very much affect your health. All of the major causes of death (such as cancer, heart disease, stroke, lung disease and injury) can be prevented in part by making healthy lifestyle choices.

If you smoke or use tobacco, then quit. Now!

Two of the most dangerous habits too many people have are smoking and using tobacco. Smoking causes over 400,000 deaths in the United States every year. More preventable illnesses (such as emphysema, mouth, throat and lung cancer, and heart disease) are caused by tobacco use than by anything else. The sooner you quit, the better.

If you drink much alcohol, then cut back.

Doctors currently recommend no more than 2 drinks a day for men and 1 drink a day for women. One drink is equal to 1 can of beer (12 ounces), a 4-ounce glass of wine or a jigger (1 ounce) of liquor.

Too much alcohol can damage the liver and contribute to some cancers, such as throat and liver cancer, and more immediate death and disease car wrecks, murders and suicides.

If you have bad eating habits, then at least eat less CRAPF (the P is silent) and then eat Great! food as much as possible.

CRAPF (the P is silent, much like the diseases eating too much CRAPF can cause) is commercially refined and processed food.Heart disease, certain cancers, stroke, diabetes and damage to your arteries rise and fall according to what you eat. Eating Great! eating less CRAPF has many health benefits. By making healthier food choices, you can also lower your cholesterol and lose weight.

If you’re overweight, then lose weight.

Most Americans are overweight. Carrying too much weight increases your risk for high blood pressure, high cholesterol, diabetes, heart disease, stroke, certain cancers, gallbladder disease and arthritis in the weight-bearing joints (such as the spine, hips or knees). A high-fiber, low-fat diet and regular exercise can help you lose weight and keep it off.

If you don’t move your “you know what” regularly for an hour a day, then you need move your “you know what” more.

Being as active as you can will help prevent heart disease, high blood pressure, diabetes, osteoporosis and depression; not to mention it can also help prevent colon cancer, stroke and back injury. You’ll feel better and better if you exercise regularly. Try to exercise for 30 to 60 minutes, 4 to 6 times a week, but remember that any amount of exercise is better than none.

Avoid the sun and never, ever use tanning booths.

I had plenty of sun exposure until I was 54, then I developed squamous cell skin cancer right in the middle of my foreheard, which is one of the most common types of skin cancer in the United States. So, limit sun exposure and wear protective clothing and hats when you are outside. Sunscreen is also very important. It protects your skin and will help prevent skin cancer. Make sure you use sunscreen year round on exposed skin (such as your face and hands). Choose a broad-spectrum sunscreen with at least an SPF 15 and one that blocks both UVA and UVB light.

Practice safe sex.

The safest sex is between two consenting adults who are only having sex with each other and who don’t have a sexually transmitted infection (STI) or share needles to inject drugs. If you are not being this exclusive, then at least use latex condoms and a spermicide (a product that kills sperm) gel or cream. Talk with your doctor about being tested yearly for STIs.

If you must get shot, let your shots be vacinnes.

Get a flu shot each year. Ask your doctor if you need other shots or vaccines. Adults need a tetanus-diphtheria booster every 10 years. Your doctor may substitute one Td booster with Tdap, which also protects you against pertussis (whooping cough). If you’re pregnant and have not had a Tdap shot before, you should be vaccinated during the third trimester of your pregnancy or late in the second trimester. Adults and teens who are in close contact with babies younger than 12 months and who have not received a Tdap shot before should get vaccinated as well.

Save the ta-tas.

Breast cancer is one of the most common causes of death for women. Between the ages of 50 and 74, women should have a mammogram every 1 to 2 years (depending on your doctor’s advice) to screen for breast cancer. Women who have risk factors for breast cancer, such as a family history of breast cancer, may need to have mammograms more often or start having them sooner.

Get regular Pap smears.

Unless your doctor suggests that you need one more often, you should have Pap smears:

  • At least every 3 years (some still say annually) beginning as soon as you begin being sexually active or reach 21 years of age and continuing until 65 years of age
  • If you are between 30 and 65 years of age and you want to have Pap smears less often, talk to your doctor about combining a Pap smear with human papillomavirus (HPV) testing every 5 years

Several factors put you at higher or lower risk for cervical cancer. Your doctor will consider these when recommending how often you should have a Pap smear.

Women older than 65 years of age, should talk with your doctor about how often you need a Pap smear. If you’ve been having Pap smears regularly and they’ve been normal, you may not need to keep having them.

If you’ve had a hysterectomy with removal of your cervix, talk with your doctor about how often you need a Pap smear.

Ask your doctor about other cancer screenings.

Adults should ask their doctor about being checked for colorectal cancer starting at age 50. Depending on your risk factors and family medical history, your doctor may want to check for other types of cancer.

Get a yearly physical.

Health screenings and afterthoughts during urgent-care visits are replacing the yearly physical. Rather and having the same tests others are getting, talk to your doctor at least once a year to figure out just which tests are right for you.

Make your insurance and other health benefits and preventive care services work for you.

Essential health benefits are a set of health care service categories that must be covered by certain plans.

If you buy a plan through a Health Insurance Marketplace, your insurance will cover the preventive services and at least 10 essential health benefits (EHBs) required by the Affordable Care Act (ACA). All private health insurance plans offered in federally facilitated marketplaces will offer the following 10 essential health benefits:

  • Ambulatory patient services (outpatient care you get without being admitted to a hospital)
  • Emergency services
  • Hospitalization (such as surgery)
  • Maternity and newborn care (care before and after your baby is born)
  • Mental health and substance use disorder services, including behavioral health treatment (this includes counseling and psychotherapy)
  • Prescription drugs
  • Rehabilitative and habilitative services and devices (services and devices to help people with injuries, disabilities, or chronic conditions gain or recover mental and physical skills)
  • Laboratory services
  • Preventive and wellness services and chronic disease management
  • Pediatric services

Regardless of what you are doing for your health now, do these things and then some.

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Question: What’s the best thing you are doing for your health today?

Post your answer to this question in a comment, or on Facebook, Twitter, or LinkedIn.

In the meantime, you GOTTABGATT! so go out there today and be Great! All the time!

If you like this stuff, share it with your friends and family. Like me on Facebook, Tweet your Twitter followers to clue them in, Pin it. Whichever way you share, share it. I would be very grateful.

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